I wonder how many good, lasting relationships started with a copy and pasted message he sent to 15 other women that same night.
So, as you can see, it doesn’t really have the same ring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good first message for online dating.Here are a few screen shots of a few of the last messages I sent out. And if it doesn’t, that’s fine, I get it, the attractive guy who just writes “hey” will get a response, only because he’s attractive.I love feedback, as long as you’re not a dick about. I assume that I should actually be TRYING to write a quality message because the content of the message is actually going to be read and weighed in the decision process of whether or not she will be responding back to me. Women, you should absolutely only respond to guys you find attractive, but beware of ANY guy who won’t even spend 5 minutes to read your profile and send you a personalized message.Preferably, open ended questions, in regards to her profile.She will be more likely to respond if you ask her about something mentioned in her profile, as opposed to a random question you want answered. There absolutely is, that one girl that is an egotistical maniac that loves hearing stuff like that from strangers on the internet.