Still, I took it like a champ — at least, I thought so.
I cried a little, I wrote it out, I sent some hardcore telling-it-like-it-is texts before I stopped texting entirely, and I shook my fist at the sky and vowed revenge.
Your in-laws are perfectly capable of saying “” Now, Agnes is not behaving like your friend right now.If Bob simply says 'I have many friend who are X', but is not using it as a defense then it may not be this trope.It may just be that he's saying so because another person says they've never seen many people of that group, so Bob saying he has friends in that group it to point out he knows some. Related to You Are a Credit to Your Race, and often accompanied by Not That There's Anything Wrong with That.Ergo, you probably won’t see them or have to deal with them this Christmas, and you also have permission to “” for all future holidays while they are a couple.You tried, you made a ton of effort to include them, and it failed. Agnes & Hector’s relationship is not your fault or your problem, and you are 100% not the ambassador between them and your in-laws.