If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious).Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead. Turn off your phone There’s nothing more annoying than phones ringing whilst trying to spend quality time out with friends, and it’s just as irritating on a date. Yes, in films they always leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is 2016.This is the time that you truly feel and believe that you may have met the right one!
She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it.
Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future.
Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.
If you are going above and beyond and in essence being “phony” just to impress your partner in the early stages, well you’re only making things difficult on yourself because your new beau actually believes that you are sweet and romantic ALL THE TIME.
And the minute that you start to relax and return to your normal average niceness, it will be noticed immediately.