The truth is that your body and overweight, in fact, disturb only you and maybe several idiots who hide behind their computers, living with the moms in their 40.
It all depends on how you look at yourself, whether you accept yourself as you are and whether you love yourself and your body.
In order to love you, you will learn to love yourself first.
You actually have to do your best (like every other woman) in order to get dates both online and in real life.
Start with creating your awesome profile, upload your best photos (it would be better if they have been made by a real photographer), write down a well-crafted text that will show your interests, smart mind and a sense of humor.
If a person is satisfied with his body and his life, then often he has no reasons to be shy.
Self-conscious is most often experienced by people who are constantly unsatisfied with something.