Usually they can’t, and they’re then transferred into another relationship.Justin came into my life lugging enough emotional baggage to take our relationship on a trip straight to break-up land.He didn’t trust easily and when he did, he would become doubtful of the person and push them away.He didn’t feel ‘good enough’ because someone had left him; and most of all he was afraid of being hurt again.
And the woman who men consider full of baggage because of kids, bad relationships, or credit debt is also not alone.Justin was an eternal pessimist when it came to love.In his eyes, love was meant to hurt; and usually he tried to hurt others before they hurt him.He didn’t possess all of the physical traits that I liked, but was still easy on the eyes. Plus, he listened to me when I went on my long rants about work.He was easy to talk to….until he felt us getting closer. He would make jokes about me not answering the phone because I was with my ‘other guy’; then his mistrust would cause him to become distant. You may be thinking, he doesn’t sound emotional, just typical; but I later found out that he had issues getting close to women because his former fiancée had left him a few weeks before their wedding.