I still don’t know if he was asking us if we were prostitutes or selling Tupperware.She was sitting in the driver’s seat and responded no, that she was working. In that guy’s eyes he couldn’t imagine what legitimate reason we could possibly have for being in HIS neighborhood. Here are a few simple tips: Take initiative, be assertive and confident! I’ve noticed that women, from butch to femme, all want to be pursued. Chances are when you get to her house she won’t be ready. Also sending a random text to let her know you’re thinking about her never hurts. -Butch Seeking Femme Dear Butch Seeking Femme, Great question! Practice good grooming, shower and make sure to smell great (this doesn’t mean overpowering)! When the time is right, consider sending flowers to her job, femmes love others to see that they’re being pursued.We were seated in our car, which was parked on a public street looking up some info on our i Pad.
This is something I never had to worry about with my femme partners.
I’ve simply had men change my tires and all I had to do was bat my eyelashes and smile and be friendly.
A butch woman cannot depend on the kindness of heterosexual, male strangers.
I constantly worry about the safety of my 5’2”-145-pound partner who is a tomboi type.
She wears hoodies and sweatpants regularly and is the sweetest person.