You will have to put up with her crying to him, and trying all sorts to get him (or you) to feel sorry for her. Mad insecurities You will need to be prepared to face constant reminders that she is a big part of his life and it will take time to let go of her.
Perhaps he still has their wedding pictures, or you sleep in the same bed she where she slept with him.
And when you’re dating someone going through a divorce, then you’ve just given new meaning to the term, ‘it’s complicated’!!!
In most cases, a divorce is a decision that comes after a lot of pain and heartache, and is usually one that is made after a good deal of thought.
He is still married and needs to complete that phase of his life before he can move on to the next.
Dating is never an easy, straightforward affair; and it probably wasn’t meant to be so either!
If you do decide to date him while he is going through a divorce, then be prepared for: Being the OTHER woman They are not divorced yet, she is still legally his wife.
This means that the people involved are hurting on a very deep level, and are probably not in a position to think in a completely rational manner.
When you are just getting to know a person, there are many things to consider, and several lines you cannot cross.
And if you thought dating a single, uncommitted man was tough, wait till you date a divorced person!
Isn’t it going to be a risky and super-messy affair?
Well, that is partly true, and it actually depends upon the specific circumstances of your individual situation.