I know I said earlier that he wants to bang your friends, so this might seem like a double standard, but it’s true.He’ll think you’re fucking with him—or worse, that you’re actually attracted to one of his buddies.No matter what he says when he’s in his twenties, when he gets a little older, he’s going to want a legacy to leave behind.But please make sure he’s ready before you stop taking your birth control.If you throw a game and he gloats, though, all bets are off. And if it was one of the SEX & THE CITY movies, you owe him either anal or a threesome. It doesn’t mean you’re not enough for him, it’s just that it’s the ultimate male fantasy. You don’t have to fill the silence with pointless chatter and small talk.I’m not saying you ever have to cave in (it’s probably best if you don’t). If you’re comfortable together, you should be able to just shut the fuck up every once in a while.
Just do some little things for him to pick up his slack when he’s overwhelmed. He deserves it (thanks to Chris Rock for that one). If you feel the need to give him a number, fine, but don’t get into what you did with whom, no matter how much he asks. Let him do those little things and it will make him love you more. He has a fragile ego, and sorry, but you need you to cater to it sometimes. If he made it through the whole thing without complaining, reward him.Bitch about him to the girls all you want, but if you’re confiding things to other men and he finds out about it, he’s going to get jealous.Sorry to break it to you, but he wants to be the only man in your life. He Wants To Try Anal He might never ask for it, but he wants it. There’s nothing hotter than a chick who can beat you in pool. If you don’t like it, for Christ’s sake, say so and let him try again. Just because you landed him doesn’t mean you can eat whatever you want and stop going to the gym (and to be fair, neither can he).You’ll have a lot of fights over the course of the relationship, but when they’re over, they really need to be over.Throwing old arguments back in his face will lead to loss of trust and ultimately change how he feels about you. If you love him for who he is now, don’t worry so much about the steps he took to get there.