Don’t risk ruining his friendships or there will be bad times ahead. And of course you can have your own hopes and dreams, but he needs you help and inspire him to achieve his. Whatever you sickest, most twisted sexual fantasy, it’s PG-13 material compared to the shit that goes on in his head.
Most of us are pretty good at shouldering our burdens, but every so often, they get too heavy. Even if he apologizes and honestly regrets it, if you let him get away with it, it WILL happen again.
When they married, she was a secretary and he was an academic.
But as her self-confidence flourished, she took on fresh challenges and forged an exciting new career.
But please make sure he’s ready before you stop taking your birth control.And as she grew out of her old, subservient role, her husband’s rancour festered.Sue, 66, now a life coach and author, who lives in Guildford, Surrey, explains: ‘When I took a university degree in human resources he felt it was a waste of time and money.And odds are, most, if not all of his former girlfriends wouldn’t let him. Don’t take it personally—he’s wanted to bang 90% of all the women he’s ever met. Yes, he probably likes sex more than you do, but you want him to be happy, right? It seems ungrateful when you wear it once and then he never sees it again. At that point, he already considers himself married, and the idea of a wedding is more of a hassle than the special day it is to you. Any time you try to force a guy to do anything, he WILL resent you for it.Let him have it at least once, maybe on his birthday. Sure, you’re an independent lady and he likes that. So let him change a light bulb and open pickle jars for you. Try an honest talk about how you feel and what you want out of the relationship before you give him an “either/or.” It’s hardwired into his DNA.